We must be thoroughly competent, adequate, intelligent, and achieving in all possible respects.
Certain acts are wrong or wicked or villainous, and people who perform them should be severely punished.
It is a terrible catastrophe when things are not as we would like them to be.
Unhappiness is the result of external events and happenings that are focused on us and that we have no control over.
We should be greatly concerned about dangerous and fearful things and must center our thinking on them until the danger has passed.
It is easier to avoid difficulties and responsibilities in life than to face them.
We need someone or something stronger than ourselves to rely on.
Because something greatly influenced us in the past, it must determine our present behavior: the influence of the past cannot be overcome.
What other people do is vitally important to us, and we should make every effort to change them to be the way we think they should be.
There is one perfect solution to every problem, and if it is not found, the results will be terrible.
One has virtually no control over her emotions; she is their victim and cannot help how she feels.
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My mom was rummaging through an old handbag and threw a yellow creased sheet of paper for me and told me to read - and this is what I found. "Typical Irrational Beliefs" - As I read each one, my breathing slowed as my heart pumped faster... it all made sense. Perfect sense. Subconsciously, some of these are my own, though I try to rationalize them to become more realistic.
